How To Date A Kenyan Girl: Here is how to date a Kenyan woman and keep her forever
You are definitely not alone if you happen to think that Kenyan girls are the best.
Kenya has like the most beautiful women on the planet, there is definitely nothing to debate about there, if you are reading this, I bet you are actually thinking of that Kenyan woman you find so attractive.
I’m not going to mention famous celebrities to give examples of beautiful women in Kenya, because that’s just but a very small reflection of how beautiful and attractive Kenyan girls can be.
Instead, I’ll let you be the judge of the fact that Kenya is a blessed land full of attractive women.
And it’s no surprise that every single man would really love to date, marry or be part of a beautiful woman’s life. That’s another thing that can’t be debated to.
But, given that we have eye catching women in our country, are they just the same (like women from other countries) when it comes to dating them?. Definitely not, well it depends.
So how do you date a kenyan girl and keep her forever?
Whether you want to grow with your Kenyan girlfriend to make her your wife, or you want to date a lady from Kenya for the very first time, or maybe you have a crush on a kenyan girl and you want to shoot your shot. This post is made just for you.
Here are excellent tips on how you can date and girl from Kenya and keep her forever.
Tips that will help know the Dos and the Don’ts of dating a kenyan girl.
How To Date A Kenyan Girl
10 Pro tips on how to date a kenyan woman and keep her forever.
1: Dress Nicely
Dress nicely when you are meeting up with a kenyan girl, put on something that fits you properly, do not try an outfit for the first time just because you are going on a date.
Put on something that you would naturally wear, that makes you feel comfortable in it.
Remember, it’s dressing nicely, Do NOT Dress to Impress. That’s not the point here. Kenyan women prefer when you look great, not when you take all the attention in the room because of your dressing code.
You are not trying to show off your modeling skills, you are trying to win over the heart of kenyan girl, that should be the first thing you think of when choosing what to wear on a date.
2: Be Confident
Kenyan women love confidence!
If dating a kenyan girl is in your bucket list, you definitely need to work of your confidence.
Don’t be all shy when talking to her or talking to other people when she’s around, you are the man.
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She wants to see you take control of literally every situation as she expects. But, that doesn’t necessarily mean that you should be rude or make decisions on her behalf, on everything without even giving her a chance to make one.
Yes, you should be confident, but you can be a confident man and still be the most generous person she’s ever met in her life.
3: Make The Plans, Don’t Ask Her
This is one thing most men don’t implement when dating in general. But you better be smart enough to take this tip to the bank if you want to date a kenyan girl and make her stay.
A Kenyan girl would rather hear you say “I’ve got plans for tomorrow, wear something sexy, I’ll come pick you up at 7 PM” rather than ” where do you want to go tomorrow, what do you think I should wear? and what time do you want me to pick you up?“
See? a kenyan girl wants you to take action, plan things that you know she will love and enjoy and simply surprise her with the plans.
Just make sure you know her schedules so you don’t interrupt anything important she had plans for.
During your talks, make sure to listen carefully so you know what she likes and dislikes, this will be of great help when you are planning something out for both of you.
Dating a kenyan girl needs you to be smart upstairs and take action as a man, that’s all you need.
4: Listen When She’s Talking
Don’t even think of turning to your phone when a kenyan girl is talking to you especially if you are on a date with her. It’s the worst thing to do to a kenyan woman.
It’s a complete turnoff for Kenyan ladies when a guy is using their phone or not concentrating when they are being talked to.
Listen to her fully, give her all the attention she needs when she is the one talking, answer her questions according, nod your head where needed and let her know you are all ears.
You are more likely to win her heart in the first date if you give her all the attention and letting nothing distract you from the moment.
5: Make Her Laugh
You don’t have to be a world class comedian to make a kenyan girl laugh.
You just have to find a way of being humorous.
Seriousness is necessary, but not all the time, you need to chill out for a minute and take life as it is.
Seen something funny?
heard something you find extremely funny?
Tell her about it.
Make her feel like the happiest woman in Kenya when she’s around you. Share meems with her that are relevant to her age, she’ll love it.
6: Text Or Call Her First
Nothing makes a kenyan girl feel special than a guy who keeps on checking on her. It’s the best thing, trust me.
Don’t let your ego fool you, when it comes to dating a kenyan girl, your ego should be nowhere near you. Do not let your ego or pride get the best of you.
Your relationship matters, so does your beautiful girl. When you have a chance, text her or call her if it’s convenient.
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Send her good morning texts and good night texts especially when you haven’t seen her for a while.
Always remember NOT to overdo it. Be patient and wait for replys before you can send another text message, maybe she is busy or not near her phone at the moment, and that’s why she hasn’t replied back to you just yet.
If you keep on flooding her phone with text messages and unanswered calls, you will come out as a greedy dude. And that’s the last thing you want a kenyan woman to take as an assumption of you.
7: Take Her Out Frequently
Kenyan women love to enjoy themselves, she will definitely prefer to watch her latest favorite movie at the theater rather than on Netflix at home.
Take her out every time you both have a chance, and put having fan as a priority.
Wanna make a kenyan girl have fun? Don’t take her at the local pub, it’s boring.
Do something or go places both of you have never tried or been able to visit before. It doesn’t have to be a place you will spend all your salary on, No, just a nice place both of you can have some fun.
Spending a lot of time together increases the bond of your relationship. And when the bond is so strong, nothing can separate her from you.
Try something like, comedy show, a whisky tasting class, Nyama Choma date night, Game Park, Road Trips, anything awesome that you can think of is a good idea, just remember that in whatever it is you do, have some fun.
8: Remember The Small Things
This one is a huge one even though we are talking about small things.
Remember what she told you the first time you guys met, and later tell her about it so she knows you actually listened to her.
Kenyan women will appreciate a man who listens and remembers what they say, especially the little small things, that probably no one would remember, that’s what you should hold on to. (the small details).
When she tells you she likes when a guy opens the door for her, never forget that, when she tells you that she loves small surprises, that’s your key to her heart, don’t lose it.
Anything that can be taken for granted during a conversation, try take it seriously, but of course we are meant to forget, and you might never remember everything she said months ago, but put some effort in it. Write it down if you have to.
9: Make eye contact
Eyes are powerful. They say eyes don’t lie. That’s true.
Making eye contact with a girl is special, if you happen to be the shy type, try working to fix that, so that the next time you meet with her, you can look straight into her eyes and say something special, it will make her feel like the queen of the universe, which she is, to you, with no doubt.
Other than that, eye contact also builds a bond between yourself and your date. Which as well shows that you are giving them your full attention. A key factor in dating a kenyan girl.
10: Don’t Rush Things
Take everything step by step…
When it comes to dating a kenyan woman, it’s quality over quantity.
And by this, I mean, you need to take everything slow but sure, Don’t try to rush things, especially things that shouldn’t be rushed at all in the first place.
Successfully being in a relationship with a kenyan woman depends on how fast you want things to be done, how fast you take things and how fast you expect certain things to happen. The trick is: the slower the better.
There is a saying that goes, Take It Slow So We Can Last Long
Love is a process, it does not just happen, it takes time to build a trust worthy relationship, a relationship that can grow into something bigger and better.
So be patient with her and life will reward you the best way it possibly can.
11: Be God fearing
Last but not least, it has been proven that Kenyan women prefer dating God fearing men over non God fearing men.
She believes that you will be the happiest couples when God is in your midst, make her feel secure, loved and appreciated by letting her know that you trust and believe in God.
She will trust you even quicker if she knows that you are a God fearing person.
God is love, so she will be sure you will love her unconditionally if you already have God inside you.
But this is not something you should fake, going to church every Sunday doesn’t prove how much you are a God fearing person, let her know the truth from your heart, trust me she will love you for that. Because at the end of the day, She’s Kenyan.
Those are 10 things to always keep in mind when dating or thinking of starting a relationship with a kenyan girl.
You are a lucky man if you have a kenyan woman in your life. Don’t take that for granted. Take care of her.